Advice on balancing life and work
"Looking
around, you will see numerous examples of attorneys who live their
lives with work filling 90 percent of their time and everything else
squeezing into the remaining 10 percent," says solo practitioner Amy E.
Clark Kleinpeter in her Young Lawyers Division 101 Practice Series article, "Balancing Life and Work."
To help lawyers find a way to make a career choice they can and want
to live with, rather then letting the stress and the anxiety of the job
get to them, Kleinpeter shares several life values that can help
lawyers find a balance between work and their private life. Among them:
Be not afraid. Kleinpeter
suggests that lawyers move toward balance with confidence and with the
understanding that building a life with friends, family, spirituality,
fitness—and not just work—is their right. "Do not buy into the myth that
misery, overwork and permanent exhaustion are hallmarks of our
profession," she writes.
Do not settle for being content as a substitute for being happy. "I
do love my job. Every day, even when it is a complete pain, I cannot
imagine doing anything else," writes Kleinpeter, explaining her
professional satisfaction now as a result of a lesson she learned as a
first-year associate by a firm's partner. When she was first asked
whether she loved her job, she thought it was OK that she found her work
interesting more than 51 percent of the time. But, as Kleinpeter
noted, that is not the same as being happy and looking forward to going
to work every day.
Define your values. Life
should be a reflection of what you value the most. Find what is
important to you and find a way to include it in your life. Kleinpeter's
message is clear: "If you value family, spend time with them. If your
health is paramount, then exercise and find time to eat right. Practice
your religion and volunteer for causes. "
Eschew perfection. Sometimes,
"you will miss a detail, make a typo, or leave out a comma. Get over
it," says Kleinpeter. Strive for doing your best for effective arguments
and writing— instead of perfection—and you will be serving your client
well.
Do not procrastinate. Procrastinating
keeps your mind busy and prevents you from relaxing with your loved
ones in your time off. "Schedule your work, do what of it you can in the
time you have allotted, then go home," suggests Kleinpeter.
Organize, organize, organize. Figuring
out a way to organize your time, space and habits may not be easy, so
continue trying ways to do so until you find a method that works and
fits you. Being organized can "be very calming," says Kleinpeter, as she
warns that "spending 40 minutes looking for a lost file does not count
as relaxing ‘down time. '"
Eat lunch. Eating "Pop-Tarts in your car or an apple at your desk" does not constitute having a proper lunch, advises Kleinpeter.
Fail. Everybody
makes mistakes and accepting failure as part of life is something you
have to get over, writes Kleinpeter. "If you never fail, you may not be
taking healthy risks that could benefit your clients and yourself. Go
for it—take calculated risks—the worst that can happen is that you fail.
And with a balanced life, failure is something you can not only
survive, but learn from. "
Read "Balancing Life and Work" in its entirety for the full set of tips from Kleinpeter.
